No More Mr. Nice Guy Book Ideas

No More Mr. Nice Guy

Be good beginner - and a good ender. If, after two or three dates, you're not really feeling it, end it, civilly and firmly.
Set boundaries, and stand up to women. If female behavior is occurring that is inappropriate - often known as a "shit test" - speak it, and clarify how things have to be if this is going to continue.
Make your life a wonderful cake - with women as the icing.
Be assertive in your opinions and outlook on life. Stand up for the way you look at the world, and let women walk who are not interested in that.
If you receive low interest signals, accept that, be grateful to know that, and move on.
No attachment to outcome - your life with be fun and enjoyable regardless, and there are plenty of women out there.
Women desire male leadership and confidence - when they don't receive that, some of their worst tendencies arise.
Women have a preternatural ability to sense male neediness: a knowledge that a man needs her for a full, whole life.
Emotional intimacy does not often portend to great sex. Polarity and tension are the keys to desire and romance. (Perhaps my most-common pursuing mistake: going too deeply into emotional subjects, focusing too little on humor, fun, and lacking all assertiveness).
Interdependence - not codependence - is the goal.
Remember the three T's to gauge interest: touch, tease, tell.
Maintain frame, lead - and no pounding on a closed door.
Cultivate an "I'll handle it" mentality.

My Five Must Haves:

Enjoy and am comfortable spending long periods of time just with them
Desires me physically and sexually
Inner compass directing to them
Fundamentally interested in being with me, and chooses me, rather than using me to achieve some personal agenda
They desire me

My Five Must Not Haves: